AAP suggests possibility of “ritual nick” in place of FGC

In a controversial new statement, the American Academy o f Pediatrics (AAP) published a new policy statement on female genital cutting which suggested the possibility of doctors being allowed to perform a small, pinprick “ritual nick” in place of the more severe forms of female genital cutting (FGC).  FGC is a fairly common practice among many cultures in Africa and Asia, and their hope is that by keeping it on American soil in the hands of trained physicians they can limit the severity of the practice, or at the very least avoid families sending these adolescents and young girls sent back to their home countries for the more severe types of cutting, or sending them to non-medically trained practitioners in North America.  To quote the AAP’s new policy statement:

    Most forms of FGC are decidedly harmful, and pediatricians should decline to perform them, even in the absence of any legal constraints. However, the ritual nick suggested by some pediatricians is not physically harmful and is much less extensive than routine newborn male genital cutting. There is reason to believe that offering such a compromise may build trust between hospitals and immigrant communities, save some girls from undergoing disfiguring and life-threatening procedures in their native countries, and play a role in the eventual eradication of FGC. It might be more effective if federal and state laws enabled pediatricians to reach out to families by offering a ritual nick as a possible compromise to avoid greater harm.

This is a really slippery slope, though.  On the one hand, you want to be able to keep a dialog open with members of these cultures, and you want to be able to offer them alternatives to the actual practice of cutting, which is often done by non-medically trained practitioners in unsterile environments, and can be dangerous and deadly, besides the actual sexual and future child-bearing limitations that these practices entail.  On the other hand, it seems a hard thing to condone, and I’m not sure how positive change could be affected through this practice, coming as it does from an outsider/ western institution like the AAP.  The New York Times ran an article on this after the AAP’s announcement, and they did a good job up summing up both sides of the story, but in particular the response to this announcement by advocacy groups like Intact America:

    “There are countries in the world that allow wife beating, slavery and child abuse, but we don’t allow people to practice those customs in this country. We don’t let people have slavery a little bit because they’re going to do it anyway, or beat their wives a little bit because they’re going to do it anyway.”–Georganne Chapin, executive director of Intact America.

And she is right about that.  Is allowing American physicians to perform a “ritual prick” the same thing as condoning the practice?  And even if a ritual prick is less damaging to a little girl than male circumcision is to a little boy, what it’s standing in place of is still a debilitating and often times misogynistic practice that in many cultures  is designed to limit a woman’s sexual enjoyment (and therefore her promiscuity), enhance male sexual pleasure, and preserve her status/ virginity/ honor/ marriageability and group identity, and has with it a host of medical conditions

Female Genital Cutting is a difficult subject to broach, even at the best of times.  This something I have struggled with for years.   My first initial response to seeing it was one of shock and outrage at the brutality of it, and ended with me declaring that it is and always will be mutilation, and that I must speak out against it whenever and wherever I saw it.  Further thought on the subject has made me come to realize that as an outsider to these cultures, I can’t approach a woman by telling her that she’s been mutilated as the starting point for any future conversations–that will immediately close her off to me and only serves to project my own cultural bias over her own.  The important thing to remember is that to women brought up in cultures which practice FGC, it is no more strange to them than piercing bellybuttons or lips or eyebrows is to us, even if the implications, the actual act itself and the repercussions of it can be much more damaging to them than a bellybutton piercing.  When viewed within their culture, it’s a mark of belonging and identity, a way of fitting in, a symbol of their womanhood, a manifestation of their virtue and honor, and on its most basic level, the way that they think vaginas are supposed to look–beautiful, even, to their eyes.  When a woman who has been cut sees a picture of an uncut vagina for the first time in her life, the reaction is usually one of shock and horror at how ugly and deformed it is, lacking the symmetry and neatness of infibulation. As members of the western/ dominant/ imperial culture, we are not in a prime position to be doing the actual hard work of change.  Our position of privilege and dominance allows us to advocate for change, but the actual change itself needs to come from within, from programs like Tostan’s, which spends 30 months teaching and empowering community leaders and members of the community, giving them the tools they need to choose to stop FGC for themselves.  Compared to that kind of impetus, the AAP advocating for a western doctor to perform a “ritual nick” seems like trying to put out a fire with a squirt-gun.

But then, on the flip side, I do hear the AAP’s argument for trying to limit the prevalence and severity of FGC by offering a cleaner, safer, less invasive option, and it does seem like they have some research to back this up (but very limited research…and it seems there is also a fair amount of research arguing against adopting this practice. To quote again from their policy: “In some countries in which FGC is common, some progress toward eradication or amelioration has been made by substituting ritual “nicks” for more severe forms.2 In contrast, there is also evidence that medicalizing FGC can prolong the custom among middle-class families (eg, in Egypt).35 Many anti-FGC activists in the West, including women from African countries, strongly oppose any compromise that would legitimize even the most minimal procedure.4 There is also some evidence (eg, in Scandinavia) that a criminalization of the practice, with the attendant risk of losing custody of one’s children, is one of the factors that led to abandonment of this tradition among Somali immigrants.36“)  My question is: does the AAP really think that women and families from cultures which practice FGC would be approaching their pediatricians about this in the first place?  And in the AAP’s defense, they are by no means recommending this routinely, only offering the option of a ritual nick as a potential last ditch effort when other attempts at education and dissuasion have failed.   The actual recommendations at the end of the policy are as follows:

The American Academy of Pediatrics:

  1. Opposes all forms of FGC that pose risks of physical or psychological harm.
  2. Encourages its members to become informed about FGC and its complications and to be able to recognize physical signs of FGC.
  3. Recommends that its members actively seek to dissuade families from carrying out harmful forms of FGC.
  4. Recommends that its members provide patients and their parents with compassionate education about the physical harms and psychological risks of FGC while remaining sensitive to the cultural and religious reasons that motivate parents to seek this procedure for their daughters.

I don’t anticipate any actual change to legislation any time soon which would non-criminalize acts of FGC, despite what the AAP may suggest.  In fact, it seems like ths US is cracking down on FGC even more at this time, especially in the form of the new proposed legislation (The Girls Protection Act H.R. 5137) which would criminalize not only acts of FGC in the US, but also sending women and girls abroad to have the procedure done (which  is already law in most of the countries of Europe).  It will be interesting to see how this plays out in the months to come.  Any other thoughts on this?

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A case in point…

…just to illustrate the bind that the homebirth midwives find themselves in at the moment after the closing of St. Vincents hospital and the subsequent loss of their back-up hospital/ written practice agreements (see yesterday’s post):

Last night I was working (at the HHC public hospital in Brooklyn where I spend a good deal of my time) and I received a phone call from a sister midwife who works with me at the same hospital.  She had just been contacted by a mutual midwife friend who had been contacted by a homebirth midwife who was in the middle of attending a difficult delivery last night and was considering a transfer to a hospital.  While I don’t know all of the details of the birth, I do know that the woman had been fully dilated for several hours already, and had been pushing without much success, and it was getting to the point where the homebirth midwife was beginning to think that a vacuum-assisted delivery might be necessary, hence the need to transfer to a hospital/ MD care.   What the homebirth midwife was most concerned about was the possibility of an MD at a hospital turning her in to the authorities for practicing without an official back-up physician/ written practice agreement.  Nevertheless, any woman in labor coming to any hospital is entitled to immediate emergency care, and cannot be turned away, thanks to EMTALA laws.  The problem is that if the midwife attending her does not have admitting privileges and/or a WPA at the hospital where they transfer to, she has limited authority and cannot necessarily continue to manage the patient.  In other words, the midwife would have to act as a monitrice (midwife at  home, doula in the hospital), which is disappointing and frustrating, to say the least, especially for the woman in labor who was relying on her midwife’s judgment and management.  It pretty much destroys the continuity of care between midwife and client if a transfer to a hospital is required.

And then, of course, there’s the relationship to consider between the midwife and the hospital she’s transferring to.  If the relationship has not been established in advance, the midwife is walking into a situation where she may not know or be familiar with the attending on call, may not have any say or influence in the continued management of the patient, and may actually be judged and excoriated (at the best) and potentially turned into the authorities (at the worst).  The hospital outlook towards women attempting homebirth, and the midwives who attend them, can be outright cruel.  I have heard MDs muttering under their breath before about how “criminal” and “dangerous” it is to give birth at home.  It doesn’t help, of course, that the women who transfer to a hospital are only transferring because something went wrong, or because they need something.  It means that the only type of homebirth that hospital providers see is a failed homebirth, which naturally colors their opinions on the success of the process.  They never see the beautiful, peaceful, uneventful, successful homebirths.  Instead, they can sometimes feel like they are being asked to “clean up the mess” made by homebirth midwives’ mismanagement, and the crazy people who are stupid enough to attempt birth at home.  The attitude of the staff at the hospital and the way they act towards the incoming transfer is crucial.  Either they can be respectful and positive, or judgmental and negative.

So, at the moment, we have plenty of people in New York city attempting homebirth with no back-up hospital to go to.  We have midwives who don’t know where or to whom to bring their patients if they need assistance.  We have couples trying to give birth who face potential castigation at the hospitals they may end up at.

I’m not really sure what happened to the couple last night.  I got a text from my sister midwife whom I work with who told me that the homebirth midwife and her clients would be heading our way, but they never actually showed up.  I was concerned because last night was actually really busy, and we didn’t have any extra beds to accommodate them.  I actually ended up delivering a beautiful 9 lbs. 6 oz baby in triage last night, and the other midwife I was working with had to do a delivery in the recovery room–both of these on stretchers and not actual beds, which is never ideal.  I know for a fact that we would have been kind and welcoming to any incoming homebirthers (we meaning the midwives…I can’t vouch for what the attitude of the doctors and nurses we worked with last night might have been, although I’d like to think that they would be pretty open and respectful, given that so many midwives work at our hospital).  In any case, the couple never showed up.  I can only hope that either they were able to successfully push the baby out at home without needing a vacuum, or else they chose to go to a different hospital than ours.

I can only hope that the homebirth midwives of New York City will be able to find back-up physicians at other hospitals and sign new WPAs/ get new admitting privileges soon, so a situation like this where a homebirth midwife is faced with such a difficult challenge doesn’t occur again any time soon.

And speaking of updates: Choices in Childbirth has just posted a follow-up to their initial action (Action Alert: Part Two), so we can continue to call and harass our legislators about how important this issue is.  Please call or write or sign the Midwifery Modernization Act petition now!  You can read the full text of the proposed Midwifery Modernization Act HERE.

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Too Cute!

This is from Brownstoner, via NewYorkShitty.  Found in McCarren Park, Williamsburg, NY.  Totally cracks me up!

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Homebirth in NYC needs your help!

St. Vincents hospital was the most homebirth-midwife friendly hospital in Manhattan, and quite possibly in New York City, period.  It was certainly the only hospital in Manhattan which accommodated homebirth and homebirth midwives.  My own midwife delivered her patients there, and she would often comment to me about what a lovely set-up they had at St. Vincents: an obstetric director who was supportive of midwifery care, a nursing staff that was cooperative and respectful of women who chose to give homebirth, and supportive back-up physician care.  With the tragic closing of St. Vincents hospital last week, pregnant women and the homebirth midwives who provided them with care are now scrambling to find another back-up hospital to cover them, which is no easy feat.  While I don’t know all of the details involved, at the very least this requires signing new Written Practice Agreements with a collaborating physician at another hospital, and midwife-friendly physicians who are willing to back-up homebirth are few and far between, unfortunately.  If these agreements are not in place, delivering with a qualified midwife at home is technically illegal.

Attempts to draft an 11th hour Written Practice Agreement between homebirth midwives and the Health and Hospitals Corporation (HHC for short–basically, the City’s public hospitals, which includes the hospital where I currently work) sadly fell through, although the latest update from Choices in Childbirth did add that HHC is still considering options.  Nevertheless, at the moment the crisis is unresolved, and this leaves women planning homebirth with no back-up options at this time.

What can we do about it?  First things first: SIGN THE PETITION in support of the Midwifery Modernization Act, which seeks to amend the Midwifery Practice Act in New York State so that having a written practice agreement in place with a collaborating physician is no longer required.  After that, you can continue to flood the Department of Health and Board of Education by making the following calls:

  • 311
  • Wendy Saunders, Executive Deputy Commissioner for the NY State Department of Health, appointed by Governor Paterson. 518-474-8390
  • Larry Mokhiber, the Secretary of the Board of Midwifery (518-474-3817, extension 130)
When you call, be sure to say: I support a woman’s right to choose a home birth and I call on the [city, Dept of Health, Governor] to do everything in their power to insure that this option remains available to all women in New York.  You can also email the Governor at http://www.state.ny.us/governor/contact/GovernorContactForm.php.
It’s a sad day indeed when birth with qualified, licensed providers is made illegal by lack of a written practice agreement and supportive hospital.  Those who were planning on delivering at St. Vincents can find another hospital to provide them with similar care: Roosevelt or Mt. Sinai or Cornell, for instance, but St. Vincents has long been the only hospital which is open to families planning homebirth.  If you were planning a  homebirth and are now out in the cold, and are willing to share your story, please feel free to post a comment or let us know how things resolve for you.  We are keeping our fingers crossed for you!
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Eeegads, we’ve been hacked!

Hi, long-lost ladies and gents!  I’ve been highly incognito, as the lack of action on this blog can attest to, and the legions of Viagra spammers took advantage of this and basically knocked  my blog out of commission, buried under mountains of spam (of course, the fact that I hadn’t upgraded my WordPress version in eons didn’t help, either).  It got so bad that our web host actually had to pull us down, and this site was officially non-existent for a whole three weeks.  *gasp*  I know, I know, it’s not like I’ve been posting much anyway, but it nearly broke my heart to think of all of that hard work and writing, not to mention the saga of my student years, lost for good.  So, all praise to the Beloved Boy, who has since saved the day by upgrading my version of WordPress, convincing DreamHost to re-host us after promising them we wouldn’t let the Legions of Spam get the upper hand again, and !voila, getting this site up and running once more.  Sadly, the old template no longer exists, so bear with us as we continue to fine-tune and play with the new theme until it looks somewhat like the old.  At least all of the writing and links are (more or less) intact.  And with that, I also promise to start to post once again, at the very least to keep the Legions of Spam at bay!  Onward, to glory!

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Upgrade in progress

I’m sorry for the shape this blog is in at the moment.  The Beloved Boy is trying to upgrade to the latest version of WordPress, and it’s wreaked havoc on my links and topics sections.  Hopefully we’ll get things back to normal in the next few days.   Stay tuned.


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Lactivists v. Facebook

It’s snowing here, but here’s a little piece of news that will warm the cockles of your heart.  As we all know, there was a big stink over at Facebook awhile ago when they banned the pictures of nursing mothers, which then led to the formation of the facebook group Hey Facebook, Breastfeeding is Not Obscene, which served as an official petition and currently has 50,000+ members.  However, not content with merely joining a facebook group, breastfeeding mother Heather Farley actually organized a breastfeeding protest outside the Palo Alto headquarters of Facebook on December 28th while visiting her family in the Bay Area.  Good for her!  The world needs more nurse-ins, and this is a perfect example of an online protest moving out of the world of blogs and into the real world.

While Facebook maintains that breastfeeding photos are okay, it does have a no-nipple no-areola policy, and will remove photos that other users indicate as obscene, which is apparently what happened with the breastfeeding photos that were originally removed.  I still don’t understand how photos of teenagers clad in lingerie are acceptable while photos of breastfeeding babies are not.  While some people argue that this is for the protection of the women and babies from predators, I really think what it does is send the message that public breastfeeding is not acceptable.  It seems like any use of the breast for anything other than sexual gratification is what’s considered obscene.  In our sex-drenched culture, sexy women in lingerie won’t even make us bat an eyelash, but a baby taking sustenance from a breast….that’s obscene.  How can breastfeeding not be considered “family-friendly”?  It’s the very essence of family friendly — it’s feeding and nourishing said family.  And for the folks who wonder why people would want to even take a photo of a nursing baby in the first place…just look at all the photos taken of babies with bottles in their mouths.  It’s cute, and as a parent, I can only imagine that there’s something very satisfying and fulfilling about watching your baby eat.  Babies are born to breastfeed, and it’s not obscene.  Anyway, kudos to the lactivists of California for making their real world presence felt outside the Facebook headquarters this holiday season.

And with that, I’m off for the rest of the year.  See you next year!

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Recession relief: midwifery saves money

Let’s face it: the economy sucks right now.  We haven’t yet hit rock bottom, and it’s going to be awhile (probably a long while) before things begin to recover.  In the midst of this harsh financial reality, companies and industries are scrambling to find ways to save money.  Birth activists have been trying for decades to convince this country of the benefits of midwifery based on its safety and track record of better outcomes, not to mention improved client satisfaction, but hey, this is America—the only thing people really pay attention to in this country is the bottom line.  So maybe midwifery has finally found the argument it needs to affect actual change.  In the midst of one of the worst recessions since the Great Depression, NOW is the time to increase access to midwifery care because it’s excellent care for a heck of a lot less than what we’re currently spending on maternity care.

In early December, shortly after the nomination of Tom Daschle as Secretary of Health and Human Services (HHS), the Big Push for Midwives launched a campaign to get Mr. Daschle to attend a community meeting on midwifery and its advantages.  Per the change.gov initiative, discussions on healthcare reform will be occurring around the country between 12/15 – 12/31, and Senator Daschle has promised to attend a few of them in person.  Thanks to the Big Push for Midwives, he was invited to several heartland discussions, including this one in Lees Summit, MO.  I haven’t been able to find any updates or reports from this meeting yet.  I’m not sure if Senator Daschle was able to attend, but it’s definitley the sort of discussion he (and the Obama administration) should be listening to. (Was anyone actually able to attend that meeting?  If so, give us an update, please!!  I’ve been searching the internet for reports on the meeting, but I haven’t found any yet.)

As this excellent recent article in the LA Times (Midwives Deliver by Jennifer Block) points out, midwives deliver much safer care for much lower cost:

    The most cost-effective, health-promoting maternity care for normal, healthy women is midwife led and out of hospital. Hospitals charge from $7,000 to $16,000, depending on the type and complexity of the birth. The average birth-center fee is only $1,600 because high-tech medical intervention is rarely applied and stays are shorter. This model of care is not just cheaper; decades of medical research show that it’s better. Mother and baby are more likely to have a normal, vaginal birth; less likely to experience trauma, such as a bad vaginal tear or a surgical delivery; and more likely to breast feed. In other words, less is actually more.The Obama administration could save the country billions by overhauling the American way of birth.

It seems like instead of encouraging midwifery care, the opposite is happening.  Birth Centers around the country are closing at a rapid pace, and Medicaid has recently started to resfuse to fund birth center care:

    Over the past few years, CMS (the federal agency that runs Medicaid/Medicare) has begun disallowing federal matching funds for state Medicaid payments for freestanding birth centers services. Birth centers have been recognized by CMS (and earlier, by HCFA) as a Medicaid provider type in State Medicaid Plans since 1987. Recently, however, CMS has disallowed such payment by several state Medicaid Agencies, including Alaska, South Carolina, Texas, and Washington State, claiming that it lacks clear statutory authority and direction to do so. CMS has directed its regional offices to stop federal payments to any state for birth center services.

As this article points out, this is going to cause a huge squeeze on birth centers around the country, and we’ll soon be seeing even more of them close unless something is done.  This is an urgent call to action.  The AACB has several resources on their website listing ways to contact your senators and let them know about this issue, including using this lovely flyer which lists all of the important talking points you’ll need when composing your e-mail or making your phone call (calls are preferrable, apparently, since e-mail is more likely to be lost in the midst of all the e-mails on the federal bail-out).  The reason this is so important is that Medicaid generally sets the standard for insurers.  If Medicaid stops insuring birth center care, other insurance companies will follow suit.  Birth centers are a crucial link in many communities, providing quality health care to diverse populations (including women on Medicaid – you only have to look at the work of Ruth Lubic and the Morris Heights birth center to appreciate that), and we need to keep as many of them open as possible.  Not only does it make great health sense, but it saves money too.

And here’s another great cost-saving suggestion: stop insuring preterm elective cesareans.  When I read this article I just about choked.  I can’t believe insurance companies are willing to pay for this when research has consistently shown that there are still a lot of complications with “near-term” infants (babies born between 34 – 36 wks) such as respiratory distress, jaundice, temperature instability (hypothermia), delayed brain development and feeding difficulties.  Forget the fact that a cesarean delivery is several thousands of dollars more expensive than a vaginal delivery; the real damage in this practice is caused by the increased number of preterm babies and the burden of care they demand.  Prematurity and NICU care accounts for one of the largest chunks of healthcare expenditure.  Even the March of Dimes is calling for a decrease in preterm cesareans.

I’ve always been consistently amazed that HMOs, managed care systems and Medicaid haven’t latched onto midwifery with more enthusiasm.  I wonder sometimes if this is because ACOG and the AMA are able to counteract the economic practicality of midwifery care with a tons of lobby money.  The economic angle isn’t anything new.  The Business of Being Born said the same thing in 2007, and Michel Odent, Ina May, Naomi Wolf, Suzanne Arms, Robbie Davis-Floyd etc. etc. have been saying the same thing for decades.  Maybe in the midst of the recession, the message will finally get through: midwifery care is better AND cheaper.

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My Beautiful Cervix

This is a site I found through Women’s Health News, but I felt it really deserved a post all its own.  A midwifery student decided to take a picture of her cervix every day for one entire menstrual cycle, and the pictures are absolutely amazing.  I want to print them out and show them to all of my clients who are trying to conceive as a way of illustrating what fertile cervical mucus looks like, and when they should be having sex!  She has entitled the website My Beautiful Cervix, and I can’t think of a more appropriate name.  I really need to get a mirror in my exam room and start to show women their cervix during our exams.  Women really need to see their cervix to understand.  There’s something so powerful and so positive and affirming about seeing this amazing, hidden, little secret thing inside of you that you never get a chance to see, and yet is always humming along, doing her thing.  It’s truly eye-opening.  I will never, ever forget the very first time I saw my own cervix.  In fact, I am somewhat tempted to take pictures of my own cervix for a month, and join her project.  Anyway, massive kudos to her courage and ingenuity in getting these pictures online.  Hopefully she won’t be forced to move the website again, due to heavy traffic and complaints about “inappropriate images”.  It’s only a cervix, after all.  Just think of how much more peaceful our world would be if the defining symbol underlying our culture was a cervix instead of a phallus.


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Midwifery Gift Guide 2008

It seems like every other blog/magazine/newspaper is putting together gift guides these days, so I thought I’d jump on the bandwagon too and put together a gift guide for the hard-to-shop-for midwives/ doulas/ lovers-of-birth in your life.  Granted, this guide sort of reads as a list of some of my favorite things, ever, but hey….why not?  And you never know, the beloved boy might be reading this, too.

1. Subscriptions

One of the most important (and hardest) parts of being a midwife is staying current with the latest research and information that’s coming down the pipeline.  While medical journals themselves are very expensive, they’re often a treasure trove of information that’s well worth reading.  If you’re a CNM/ CM, membership in the ACNM automatically brings the Journal of Midwifery and Women’s Health to your doorstep every quarter.  However, if you’re midwife is not a member of the ACNM, getting her a subscription to this journal could be a lovely gift.  If you really want to splurge (and/or if your midwife is an avid reader of medical research), then go straight to Midirs Midwifery Digest, which is England’s premiere midwifery publication, and really is a treat.  They will ship internationally, of course, although it’s a bit pricey.  I had a subscription for a year, and I loved it!  It’s such a breath of fresh air to read actual midwifery research, as opposed to OB research which happens to be applicable to midwives.  And of course there’s Midwifery Today, which is like candy to any birth-enthusiast.  The birth stories are truly inspirational, and Midwifery Today, much more so than the more academic journals, really captures the heart and soul of being a midwife.

If you’re looking for something more along the lines of a subscription for your favorite feminist, then I’d highly recommend Bust magazine.

2. Vulva Puppets

When I first discovered these AMAZING VULVA PUPPETS back in 2006 I very nearly wet myself with excitement.  Since that time, my vulva-puppet lust has been put on a back-burner (due in part to the hefty pricetag, which might make this gift somewhat impractical in a recession year), but I still think that this is cadillac of midwifery gifts, gauranteed to absolutely floor your midwife and send her (or him) into paroxysms of joy.  Just look at how beautiful they are—such a special, fitting tribute to the power and wonder and mystery of the vulva.  The Vulva Puppet Gallery has changed slightly; some of my personal favorite vulva puppets are now under the Limited Editions Gallery (which only works if you click on the color links, rather than the Goddess/Continent links).  These puppets will make an amazing gift for your midwife, particularly at a special juncture in her/his life, such as graduation, a new job, opening a private practice, retirement etc. etc.

3. Birth Secret, by Brian Andreas

I found this print in a gallery in Woodstock, NY, two days before our wedding, and I bought it on the spot.  It’s now become my go-to gift for all of the midwives in my life (and trust me, there are plenty of them), for birthdays or holidays or whenever you want to give someone something special.  The text reads: “In my dream he told me to hold the secret of his birth safe and teach him when he forgot”.  This artwork is perfect for the walls of your midwife’s office or clinic or home.

4. Books

I’m sure Spiritual Midwifery is already on your midwife’s bookshelf, so before purchasing books for your midwife, I first suggest that you puruse their bookshelf to ascertain what they do and do not already own.  Barring that, here are a few interesting and less obvious suggestions:

Pleasure reading:

The Birth House: A Novel

Baby Catcher: Chronicles of a Modern Midwife

A Midwife’s Story

A Midwife’s Tale: The Life of Martha Ballard, Based on Her Diary, 1785-1812
Educational/ Informative:

Misconceptions: Truth, Lies, and the Unexpected on the Journey to Motherhood

Heart & Hands: A Midwife’s Guide to Pregnancy & Birth

Recreating Motherhood

The Technology of Orgasm: “Hysteria,” the Vibrator, and Women’s Sexual Satisfaction (Johns Hopkins Studies in the History of Technology)

5. Jewelry

This might somewhat uphold the stereotype of the hippie midwife with the dangling goddess earrings, but if your midwife is that type of gal, then there’s some great stuff over on Attachments which fits that description.

And that’s pretty much all I can think of for now, although if anyone else has any other great suggestions, please let me know!

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